In your twenties and thirties, you're busy building a life. You're having babies, building a career, saving for a house, planning vacations. Our days were filled with carpools, clubs, after-school activities, sports, and all the responsibilities that come with raising a family. There was little time to slow down and think about what truly mattered. Grief forced me to. As my children got older, our focus shifted to college admissions, SAT and ACT scores, and building the perfe